Monday, June 24, 2013

Resting and Remembering Emily

 

Today was our first rest day! We got to sleep in!! Well to 7am; but that’s late when usually you wake up at 430…
We had to be out of the church we slept in last night by 8. We had our dedication circle like normal and then we all drove to a café/coffee shop. We drove down 191 to our next host and left the support van there. We then went to Arches Nation Park! Yesterday when Elizabeth and I played pick up football, we were told that we HAD to see Delicate Arch. So that’s the one trail our team hiked. The trail was supposed to take 2-3 hours. It’s a 3-mile round trip hike to see the arch. We stopped and took advantage of tons of photo opportunities so we took a little longer than expected. But we got some gorgeous pictures!!!



Delicate Arch, Arches National Park




After hiking we went back to our new host and relaxed for a while. We got everyone’s laundry together and a group of 6 of us went into town to do laundry and go to the aquatics center. Lindsay, Elizabeth, Bethie, Susan, Sarah and I went to the Moab Diner for dinner.  It was delicious! I had a western omelette, hash browns, toast and biscuits and gravy!!

We came back to the church to get ready for bed and to see the supermoon!  Tonight the moon was the closest and brightest full moon of 2013.  For some really cool information about this years supermoon and to see when the closest moon will be seen in the 21st century (Dec. 6 2052) you can check out this link: http://earthsky.org/tonight/is-biggest-and-closest-full-moon-on-june-23-2013-a-supermoon#.UcZ1sZIMHFo
It’s where I learned more about the supermoon after being told by some of my teammates and citizens of Moab!



Today, even though it was a rest day, was dedicated in honor of someone. Today I honored Emily Benatar. She was a sister of mine in Alpha Phi at Washington University in St. Louis. Emily was in my pledge class. As freshmen we were all excited to join Alpha Phi and get to know all of our sisters. Late in the semester, Emily became very sick and was hospitalized. She had meningitis. Em was in the hospital for about three weeks. We weren’t allowed to visit her but we each wrote little notes and photoshopped them together to make a big poster which we had hung in her hospital room. The chapter was kept up to date on how she was doing and knew when her family came to town to be with her. We all clung to the idea that she was improving and would soon be healthy and happy again. After my finals in May, I went on an executive retreat with CS40 (a programming group at WashU). It was during those three days that I got the email that Em had passed. It was tragic. I didn’t know what to do or say or think. I missed the vigil at school because I was away for the retreat. No one with me knew Emily as well as I did and I was all alone taking in the news of her death.





I know this run is for cancer, but for me, Emily’s death was the only struggle that I have seen someone fight through. We followed how she was doing every day. Not a class went by that I didn’t check my email for an update. I imagine that’s how people feel when a loved one is struggling against cancer. When you can see their life slipping away. This goes to show us all that even when people may not have been through the exact situation you’re going through, it doesn't mean that they can't relate to you. Always know you have people to reach out to. Everyone goes through times of loss and agony.

Emily Benatar was an amazing young woman. She was beautiful and kind. She was a sister that I knew I could have a good time with and she would laugh and be silly to brighten someone’s day. She was incredible. I only knew Emily for about a year and was a sister to her for a semester. But she will always be in my heart. No one will ever forget her.
Rest in Peace Em
AOE

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